“I’m afraid to ask questions and ask again. It seems that it is always inappropriate “ Leave a comment
Tatyana, you do not ask a question in your letter, but simply report the fact. What situations in principle we are talking about? At a meeting at work, at study, in a conversation with friends or relatives?
If you look at your reasoning logically, then you are absolutely right, asking a question to someone, you interrupt his reasoning, but this is the essence of communication, dialogue.
How the circumstances in your parental family? Were your parents (or one of them) too authoritarian
? In your childhood, was there a ban on interrupting adults, asking extra questions?
Unfortunately, in your letter you did not give any introductory information on the basis of which you can make more specific assumptions and find out where the legs of your discomfort grow from. You don’t even write whether there was always a certain event, after which you began to experience difficulties.
In order to stop feeling discomfort, you need to understand the reasons for its occurrence, find out your thoughts about this. This is a good request to work with a psychologist – a specialist will help to understand and eliminate the experiences that prevent you from living.
Perhaps you yourself will understand the cause of your condition and you can work it out, but if this is not so, then there is nothing wrong with the opposition to third -party assistance.
It is already remarkable that you clearly understand that there is a phenomenon with which you live worse than if it was not. And your question is definitely solving.
